The last few weeks, no the whole last year, has been a time with many sorrows in the Midwest rodeo family. In just the last few days we have lost Cody Stephens, Joe Garretson and now Jason Clark. Many were still adjusting to the untimely deaths of female bull rider Alyssa (AJ) Vanderhoff and Iowa Rodeo Cowboy Association’s Rich Gheer lost in August; in June we lost Rodeo judge, Thad Ita, his wife, Tricia, and son, Jacob, who were killed as the result of a car crash; and bull rider James Andrew Graber who was also killed in a car crash after an event on January 24th, 2009. Also in all our prayers is bull rider Michael Mincy who is in a coma following another car accident.
Cody Stephens left us with the legacy of his fighting spirit. AJ left us with a spirit of try few of us had ever witnessed. Joe was not only a bullfighter but also a teacher opening a new world for future bullfighters. Thad taught us about being fair. Jason and James had the exuberance of youth. These are gifts we will always cherish and not even death can take those from us.
Losing someone or something you love is very painful. After a significant loss, you may experience all kinds of difficult and surprising emotions, such as shock, anger, and guilt. Sometimes it may feel like the sadness will never let up. While these feelings can be frightening and overwhelming, they are normal reactions to loss.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve — but there are healthy ways to cope with the pain. You can get through it!
In conjunction with Rodeo Attitude, Rodeo Attitude Sports Medicine has implemented a program, which takes effect immediately. We have pooled our resources and we are offering counseling FREE of charge for you and your family.
If you feel that you need to speak with someone privately and confidentially, please contact the Rodeo Attitude Sports Medicine office at 563-506-5208 and we will give you the name and phone number of someone in your area who will assist you.
THIS IS A FREE AND TOTALLY CONFIDENTIAL.
